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Sex at first time
Often this occurs in terrible unsanitary condition, hastily, able alcoholic
intoxication, under pressure of more active side, by force and does not
bring anybody happiness or satisfactions. Opposite, remains in memories as
something unpleasant, painful and repugnant. Something awful, and useless in
our life.
The First sexual experience firmly engrave in consciousness of the person
independently of his desires. Especially it's important for women as essence
more receptive and emotional. The Unchancy first experience much often
becomes the reason of woman coolness,her indifference to sex, inability to
feel orgasm, sexual disharmony and negative relations to man in general.
And it would be lucky to her if her first partner will turn out to be the
person knowing, experienced, tactful and careful. And loving, certainly.
Cause all their own following relationship she will instinctively miss
through impressions and feelings of her first night. What they will be?
Pleasent, not quite or terrible? In enormous degree this depends on her...
The First once, as a rule,is painful, and terrible, and unpleasant. Ànd if
partner rough and unattentive, else and bitterly. And do not believe its
experienced juvenile girlfriend, which in the first once flew to the skies
and have felt the paradise enjoyment. This lying! This even practically
impossible since traumatically (even though hymen presents itself
rubber-band, not tearing, but sprawlling natural barrier). Even though the
first man experienced, and attentive, and loving, hardly girl will be able
to feel orgasm. This sooner exclusive event, than rule.
But if vicinity comes of person of the same age, such young and
inexperienced, either as she, that some not too pleasing and even odd
moments, alas, not to avoid. But all remediable if young people go on this
on love, emotional inclination, conciously and of own accord. But if all
occur otherwise? Accidentally, on foolishnesses, because of awe...
From such absurd and sad experience girl most often stands the impression of
disappointment and is disgusted to sex for long years occasionly. Repeat,
many feminine problems in sex are bound with the first unchancy sexual
experience exactly.
Why girls even so go on this
1. Because of difference in motivation and level sexual developments lad and
girls in teen and early juvenile age. She is connected with that, as they
look at questions of love and friendships. The Girl at age of 14 - 18 years
interests the question a romantic love, platonic amorous relations, gentile
friendship. They love to read the amorous novels and look the melodramas and
visualize the relations a men and women(woman) in beautiful and romantic key
mutual liking, good relations, tendernesses. They in their own daydream very
distant from animal instinct and blast rafts, which while sleep in them. The
Manifestation to activities on the part of youth scares them, repulses,
provides in confusion and even spoils. Sexuality wake in them much later.
The Youths approximately of 17 - 24 years first, but afterwards all
difinitly feel wholly concrete flesh-colored longing to vicinity with girl.
They want the sex. And not grown-up while before high spiritual relations
with woman. She will appear beside them later at more mature age. But while
them with terrible power draws to tele. The Girl, not understanding this,
yields his desires, accepting them for love of the high spiritual order.
Much often thought up relations, which is subtracted from amorous novel and
seen in film, seem the love, and she dares on the first experience. Some
girls do not guess about that that they play with fire, denuding seductive
parts of its figure, legs, bosom. They provoke the pair by its cloth,
behaviour, as if allowing him itself to want. The Many lad much gravely
stand firm against this. So appear casual and early relationship,
conditioned only by unbearable desire of the rapprochement. Regrettably,
they distant from true ëþáâè and vicinity though inexperienced young people
are perceived exactly so.
2. The Girl yields the request, desires and threat because of awe to be
rejected, derided, be worse others, differ from collectively formed image of
girl , which press on her in society peer. That is to say goes on this step
from awe. Rather then on love. Sometimes this occurs accidentally able
uncontrolled inclination under the action of alcohol. In such events girl is
not insured nor from what. Particularly if she not too fastidious in
acquaintance, and there is lad amongst her encirclements with questionable
honour. Nor to that good such experience does not bring, as a rule. And
great love and bride also, about than each in secret dreams, here and does
not smell.
3. Some modern girls enter in sexual relations in revenge to annoy to
parents, in order to have a reputation for amongst peer advanced, for the
sake of interest, look senior, attractive in eye opposite flap. Often grow
cynical and indifferent to normal human relations of the women from such
experimentors. They reduce any relations a sex to beds, they succeed in art
of the flesh-colored pleasures. But little who of them capable on-persisting
be weakened during sex. Since disorderly relationship and experiments, alas,
do not intensify their feminine beginning, but destroy it, devastating their
shower, which forfeits the ability of the complicity, fine internal sense of
other person. I not faith that best wife comes from whores. On that idle
time to reason that best wife this, first of all, close person. Spiritual
close. Possible possess the thousand of methodses of debilitation in beds,
learn to play in a thousand of the sexual plays, but as well as not to learn
to be a woman, soft, good and tolerated to one single person, who will
become your husband.
When woman will sell her body, whether for the sake of experiment and own
pleasure or for money, she forgets to feel the unselfish love. She loses
herself as woman, with each new partner not gaining, but forfeiting small
part its showers. Since so is made her body, it can not exist apart from
reason and heart. Since whole organism is included in sexual relations. When
she enters in sexual relations, she gains male power and energy of the
flesh-colored plan, but will return the part its internal essence.
When this does not occur, but occurs the nacked sex, that woman in this
woman already no or else no.
I assume, this only subjective opinion of the author, and that modern life
much softer pertains to questions of the sex. But nobody will not be able me
to convince in that that, enterring in sexual relations with man, woman
never thinks about love although on moment although edge of its
consciousness, but anxious only trivial question of the sexual discharge or
possibility to train in beds. Show me this woman, I want to look in her
eyes!
It seems, for each girl question to first night one of the the most
important questions for life. Since he forms whole herthe most further life
with man and is straight connected with her sensation of happiness. So she
must pertain to him as far as possible carefully and responsible.
I think, in any event she does not cost to:
HURRY.
TRY to BE, AS ALL. IT BE ADJUSTED To STANDARD And REQUIREMENTS of the FASION
(what can be a FASION if the question is your own life, which is given you
only once upon a time and correct, change and remake anything in her already
is not got never?!).
BE afraid to BE REJECTED (the love, the present love if she exists to be, is
not checked such doubtful way).
GO ON THIS THOUGHTLESSLY, LIGHTLY, THOUGHTLESSLY, WITHOUT REGARD POSSIBLE
CONSEQUENCE.
DO THIS FOR THE SAKE OF EXPERIMENT With DOUBTFUL PERSONALITY. But if dared
to get to know all in this lifes, choose the partner without burdenning
circumstance.
DO THIS ON STAIR PLATFORM, In CELLAR, In SPACE BENEATH A GATE and etc. There
is risk that you this extremely does not like, and run away from this for
ever.
GO ON THIS IF YOU NOT CERTAIN THAT LOVE THIS PERSON. Try to hear, love
beside you or simply so some other way. Here is see, soon this will become
clear you and without sex.
FASTEN the MAN by THEREBY if you need the man, rather then male. There is
risk that, having satisfied its desire, he simply throws you. The Man, who
from woman it is necessary only this, fasten impossible since first or last
on his way is met other, more attractive female, and will lead away him in
new networks.
USE the SEX AS PROVOCATION And BLACKMAIL. If only you not Mate to Kissers,
hardly this will do you lucky. Yes and than for it all ended, recall...
I seem that sensation of happiness for women(woman) in the same way, either
as for men, is bound not with sexual discharge, but with notion more high
and fine plan. Emotional vicinity, love, respect, human heat. And,
certainly, harmonious, deep and all-embracing flesh-colored contact, which
can not occur hastily, in entrance, harum-scarum and with whom has got... So
why you its first most main experience to lifes hurry and start on drift?!
You after all this does not want! As well as do not hurry to become the
woman, more so that with sensation and realization its feminine begin this
is bound only formally...
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